However, there are much deeper reasons for encouraging people to
formulate life goals. The process is transformative, especially when
done through a conversation with a friend, planner or coach. It is also
energising and brings vigour, clarity and focus to one's life. Stephen
Covey in his widely acclaimed book "The Seven Habits of Highly
Effective People" calls Habit Two "Begin with end in mind". In other
words, it is much easier to get where you want to be when you know
where you're going.
Jeremy Deedes, Director of Planning for Life, recalls an early
example of this when, many years ago, he was learning to drive along
the twisty road between Ampleforth and Oswaldkirk. His first lesson was
a very slow and wobbly progress along this road until he reached the
little passing place at the bottom of the hill just past the College.
Here his instructor asked him to pull in and then asked him whereabouts
on the road he was looking. He responded by pointing at the nearest
patch of tarmac he could see in front of the car bonnet. His instructor
suggested that instead he look as far ahead down the road as possible
and when he started, lo and behold, their progress turned into a
straight line down the left hand side of the road and out of the ditch.
For entrepreneurs, life goals have an additional signifcance. If, as Michael Gerber so succinctly puts it, the main role of business owners is "to create more life for themselves", then those core life goals will provide the fundamental structure, direction and energy of the business.